Sunday, September 30, 2012

Leo!


 Lots of pictures of Leo!  The pink shirt  picture is the last picture before Leo was born.  Then Ryan holding him just after he was born.





                       





This is our midwife, Linda, with Leo and Torvald
First checkup at the hospital
First walk




With bestemor and Hanne

With bestemor and the outfit she made for him
 With his friends from the gym
With his friend, Mike
 With his friend, Agneta                                      
 With his friend, Per Andre





 Nice by the fire


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Friday, July 6, 2012

Thoughts


It's been awhile since I've written anything but am now on vacation and have had more time than usual to sit back and reflect on things.  I am the type of person that needs time to do this to process stuff and over the recent past haven't really been taking the time out to do this.  And, I realized that what I write will be offensive to some, which is not my intent, and I'm sure I'll receive a lot of criticism for what I'm about to write.

Anyway, I felt inspired to write this based off of a response to a post on facebook I received from a friend of mine regarding a quote I posted from an individual named Dr. Cornel West.  This post is not necessarily about that specifically (you can read it on my fb page if interested) but did get me thinking about a number of things, particularly my faith (which is Christianity) and spirituality, and how that should inform every aspect of my life, including my political ideology.  Side note:  It's sometimes difficult to label myself as christian since there are so many brands of it...for example, most, if not all, of the high level politicians claim the christian label, however what I find that they actually are claiming is a civil religion working for the ideals of that politician or political party...and each civil religion (called christian) has its nuances between each person and party, depending on what fits each best.

Unfortunately, too often people get faith and politics confused...or at least turned around, I should say.  In many ways our politicians have co-opted christianity and made it something to run a platform on.  For example, George Bush, claims to be christian.  He's against abortion (I say this tongue in cheek and I might add is not a litmus test to being a christian in the first place) but under his leadership, Texas executed 152 prisoners which is more than any other governor in modern American history.  Mike Huckabee, another self identified christian, demanded that Cpl Bradley Manning be executed for this intentional leaking of classified material and video.  While I understand this to be against the law and is defined as treason, should a man who claims to be christian lead the charge to kill him?  

I'm not trying to bash Bush or Huckabee or their supporters but the above is important to point out when truly assessing what they believe since what they believe is so important to a lot of people. There are many other examples I can give of leaders claiming to be christian making political decisions that are clearly counter to the teachings of Jesus, but that's not the problem in itself...everyone makes mistakes.  The problem arises when these people call themselves christian, make decisions counter to what they say they believe, then interpret those decisions as in accordance to their "christian" ideals.  What happens then is an unauthentic interpretation of christianity, ultimately creating a civil religion which is inconsistent with the teachings of jesus.  This is why I say that it can be difficult to label myself a christian because of all the messed up connotations that are now ascribed to this label.

So let's start here...I believe in the Jesus of the bible.  I believe in his actions and teachings.  If I believe these things, it should inform how I treat people, my ideologies, philosophies, generally every aspect of my life (including who I vote for in elections and even if I participate in elections at all).  That being said, I do not believe in the christianity of Bush or Huckabee or most of the politicians that I believe have created a strand of christianity more suitable to getting them votes and more suitably called civil religion.  

The teachings of Jesus call us first and foremost to love God and to have love and compassion toward our fellows.  It errs on the side of this love and compassion over wrath and destruction.  Jesus does not teach us to execute others who have betrayed us...he teaches us to love and bless our enemies.  Jesus teaches us to take care of the poor and sick and to protect children and widows.  And people, in order for us to do this, we have to give ourselves to do it.  And while most Americans don't want to hear it, Jesus teaches a social response in order to carry out his teachings.  Of course this social response isn't the responsibility of any government and should be a individual and/or community response; however, why are so many self identified christians scared of any kind of talk regarding putting social policies in place in the US.  It works all over the world, why not here.  The reason why social talk is so madly resisted is not because it won't work but because it will mostly effect the wealthiest people, who can sway people's thoughts against this talk by demonizing it as they have greater access to media outlets.  But, another biblical lesson is applicable here...to whom much is given, much will be required...in this instance, perhaps that means that those who are wealthy should give more to the poor and sick, the child and widow.  

I want to follow what Jesus taught and still teaches.  I fail miserably on a daily basis (especially dealing with airports and baggage), but I still try.  I truly feel that for those of us that want to follow Jesus, we have to take into account what he would have us do here.  Do we really believe that the decisions that have been made in our nation's recent history is God-ordained...all the hate, slander (just look at current campaign practices), greed, etc?  I don't and I think we need to step out of the box of civil religion that has been created and get back to the Jesus of the bible and let this inform how we form our political ideologies.  

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Time of Reflection at Verdensspeilet

It's the last day of 2011, and the Roberts family achieved unanimous consensus this morning that we wanted to spend the afternoon at Verdensspeilet, a Fredrikstad coffee bar.  The server gave Ryan their tinyest piece of Napoleon's Cake, and they always make my latte lukewarm, yet the place has grown on us and we keep coming back.

I'm tempted to say that the last part of the year has been the best.  Although the New Mexico part of the year was pretty dang good too (and in a separate league, really).  Christmas vacation has been soooo nice, and after a year which took a lot of time to get used to several new places to live, new jobs, new people  and all that jazz, I finally feel like I am completely ready, for a new year and even more new beginnings.

Have a good 2012, all, and thanks for being part of our lives over the past year!  Please continue to pray for us, and please continue to be our friends - you are greatly appreciated.

A few pics from our December trip to Trøndelag (Hanne's home grounds...)


This is how we dragged Torvald with us the whole way...

Christmas meal with Hanne's family: Lutefisk (first time trying it for both of us - it was actually good!!!)


Torvald and Ryan playing tag in the wintergreen meadows of the promised land - Nes...

Ryan making leg of lamb for Christmas dinner...


There was one Christmas gift which Torvald liked extra much - the one from Albuquerque with doggies on it.  Must've smelled like Bud or something.  He kept laying down next to it.


Our ridiculous Christmas 2011 family photo.  Next year we'll attempt to make a pretty family photo...  Well, we are what we are I suppose ;)

Happy New Year!

Thursday, October 27, 2011

October update from the Roberts

So what's new with the Shryman and the Lundster and the Scorecards since we spoke?

Hanne is working away at the hospital...  I'm getting pretty much all the shifts I can handle so that's good.  I love interacting with patients and my coworkers, and I'm hoping that through my job I can make at least a little bit of a difference to somebody every now and then, but in order to be the best person I can be, I need something more in my life besides work.  I am noticing that when I work a lot I can tend to feel uninspired and be a less-than-inspiring person to be around, too.  I'm the kind of person who needs at least a little bit of space and time to dream and to have something to reach towards.  So now that work life's on track my new project is figuring out what to do with my spare time.   Great suggestions are warmly welcome in the comment field:)  For now, Christmas preparations are on my mind... and painting our apartment... I have a couple of friends from Fuller visiting me in November (Nelli and Ja-Kyung, yay!!!)... we are starting to get plugged into a church community here... and I'm looking into ways of serving local immigrants or just other newbies like myself, because that is something I am really interested in.  Also hopefully, at the start of the new year, we'll be able to have some kind of small gathering of believers that will meet regularly, but that is to happen all in God's time.

We are starting to make friends, and that has been just a super awesome improvement to our life here in Fredrikstad.  This fall I've gotten to go along to two of Ryan's gymnasts' competitions, and we've had a lot of fun with the gymnasts and their families--and the girls have had some really good results, too!

Ryan's traveling a bunch with his job, so far to Slovenia and a few places in Norway, later this fall he's heading to Croatia, Czech Republic, Hungary and who knows where else... I'm impressed by the work he is doing, it's fun to see him thrive in this new context.  Really, getting married and then moving straight to a whole different culture is something I wholeheartedly would recommend, haha, contrary to what most people have gently recommended to us.

We're quickly approaching our first wedding anniversary.  This past year has gone by soooo fast, but it's also been soooooo good!  Maybe we'll blog about our past year some day, who knows.

And the Scorecards (Torvald)?  He lays around and sleeps all day, so not much new with him...  He's been on vacation twice this fall, once to Oslo and once to spend the weekend with BJ and her family and their girl dog named Mim.  Torvald likes Mim a lot, but to her he couldn't be more invisible... the story of Torvald's life when it comes to girls... sigh...

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Some quick thoughts on something I read this morning that made a lot of sense to me and I wanted to share

I often read things that stick out in my mind and I think a lot about them.  When I read this this morning, I really wanted to share it with someone so I decided I'd write about it.  I thought about how simple it is to gauge my spiritual condition and how I'm so often unaware of it and am so often spiritually unfit...

"I was sitting in my bedroom, reading
into the wee hours, when suddenly I heard my dogs barking in the
back yard. My neighbors frown on this kind of disturbance so, with
mixed feelings of anger and shame, as well as fear of my
neighbor's disapproval, I immediately called in my dogs. Several
weeks later the exact situation repeated itself but this time,
because I was feeling more at peace with myself, I was able to
accept the situation--dogs will bark--and I calmly called in the
dogs. Both incidents taught me that when a person experiences
nearly identical events and reacts two different ways, then it
is not the event which is of prime importance, but the person's
spiritual condition. Feelings come from inside, not from outward
circumstances. When my spiritual condition is positive, I react
positively."

This is so true...when I have inner spiritual calmness and am in touch with God, I am better prepared for life.  It's not the circumstances of life or the events of the day that matter so much, it's the way in which we approach them and respond to them...When I am spiritually fit, I am more selfless and humble, and am better prepared for anything that comes my way...when I am trying to control and promote my own selfish agenda, things get convoluted and bogged down by things that matter little.  Being spiritually unfit, I am bound and glued to one course of action...being spiritually fit, I am free and can make the right decisions.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Trolløya

We had a great time this weekend on an island called Trolløya.  We met some friends from Gothenburg, Sweden, who were on a canoeing trip.  It was a great time.  We swam in the lake and hiked around the island; cooked some hot dogs and s'mores.  I forgot how fun it was to go hang out in the wilderness for a couple days and enjoy God's creation.  We had a glimpse of the Kingdom as the sun set over the lake on Saturday night.






The Action Shots...




Hanne, Ryan, and Torvald (aka Scorecard Gonzalez)...

Ryan and Scorecard



Swimming


The Norwegian/Swedish Border




More Swimming













More invasion of heaven...
The Swedish/Norwegian crew... (from left to right) Ryan, Hanne, Marcus, Nils, Torvald, Karen, Sira, Ole, Svea

Hanne and I are definitely going to be doing more of these kinds of things.  


Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Summer vacation...

After having worked for about three and a half month it's time for some vacay time...  Most (?) people in Norway have 4 or more weeks off in the summer--I've got a whole week off with nothing to do besides keeping Ryan company at home on the couch or occasionally leave the house should we feel like it.  We're trying to save as much money as we can for the time being, and the couch feels like the safest place for that ;)...   Plus Torvald likes the couch, too, and he's nice to cuddle with...  
My sister in law, Elisabeth, niece Alida and nephew Noah came and spent the night yesterday.


 Ryan and Noah, walking the dog into the sunset...



My dad has been here, too, and later this week my mom will come to visit along with my niece Rikke who just finished first grade and thus gets to go on a tour of Norway with her bestemor as a treat.  We're hoping for some beach and sun time for us girls and some reading in the shade time for Ryan.
Tomorrow Ryan will get to experience a major slice of Norway weirdity as we're going to a TV-show called "Allsang på Grensen," an outside concert/singalong with a few thousand other Norwegians and Swedes in a 350 year old fortress on the border. 

I am looking for reading material, in the areas of anthropology/sociology and faith, cross-cultural nursing, and renal or infection nursing.  It's hard to find the good stuff just by way of google, so does anybody have any good suggestions for me?

Have a good summer vacation!!! (I'll try to get Ryan to write some more too, I promise...)